tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15649972379707490482024-03-08T12:15:46.612+09:00Mr. JeremyLife in Japan, Family, Books, Preschool and Elementary Education, Jesus.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger212125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-49426767288777762302019-11-11T11:37:00.000+09:002019-11-11T11:37:02.204+09:00Your Kids Need SleepI often get asked about parenting. Maybe it's because I've been doing children's ministry for twenty years, been a teacher for twenty years, and been a parent for a combined total (if you add up my kids' ages) of 48 years. I see my own kids every day of course (at least the two that are still at home) and maybe a hundred other kids every week. So yeah, I get asked about parenting.<br />
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There are several obvious things parents can do to help their kids. Parents showing affection and respect for one another is huge. Another is setting aside time for the family to be together (not just co-location, but eye contact and words--food too. And prayer. Lots of prayer.<br />
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One less obvious is sleep habits. Kids (even teens) need eight to ten hours of sleep each night. A consistent, and early, bedtime helps in so many ways.<br />
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<b>Mood:</b> Tired people are grumpy. Maybe that grumpiness isn't adolescent hormones. It might just be sleepiness.<br />
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<b>Health:</b> Nagging coughs, digestive issues, headaches? Sleep a consistent eight to ten hours and watch the health improve.<br />
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<b>Grades:</b> Well-rested people can concentrate. Tired people can't. Memories get consolidated during sleep. Not enough sleep for good memory consolidation? Hours of study down the drain.<br />
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<b>Study habits:</b> Connected to "grades," when kids know they need to go to bed at the same time every night, there is no such thing as cramming for a test the night before. Space the studying out, and the material is learned more deeply.<br />
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<b>Virtue:</b> Not to judge night owls, but the kinds of things people do in the morning tend to be better things than the things they do at night.<br />
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Marital bliss! When kids are in bed before their parents, there is time for husband and wife to be husband and wife. Steep some tea, have some conversation, etc.<br />
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There are more benefits, but maybe you are already convinced and want to know how to put it into practice. I don't know what will work for you, but here is what we do.<br />
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The kids are usually fed and ready for bed by 8:30 or so. We pray together as a family. The kids (even the high schoolers) go to their rooms and lie down. That's it.<br />
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Well, that's not completely it. Computers, phones, all iDevices, stay in the living room. Also, no studying after bedtime, but pleasure reading is OK. We don't explicitly say that pleasure reading is OK. When our kids were young they felt like they were getting away with something by reading in bed until quite late. All three kids love to read now. (Sneaky us!)<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-55685445018813774672019-03-04T14:49:00.001+09:002019-03-04T14:49:57.933+09:00WonderI collect quotes. I usually note my sources, but somehow I failed to get this one. Googling didn't help. It's someone quoting Josef Piper quoting Aquinas. If you know where it came from, please inform me.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">facing the truth that we know in part allows a healthy sense of wonder to return, for it is only the one who does not fully know who “wonders,” as philosopher Josef Piper points out: "To wonder is not to know fully, not to conceive absolutely; it means not to know what is behind it all; it means, as Aquinas says, 'that the cause of that at which we wonder is hidden from us.' And so, to wonder is not to know, not to know fully, not to be able to conceive. To conceive a thing, to possess comprehensive and exhaustive knowledge of a thing, is to cease to wonder."</span></blockquote>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-81655628732694049262019-02-25T19:28:00.000+09:002019-02-26T09:55:57.730+09:00Study Followership, Not Just LeadershipObvious, once you think about it. From page 276 of <a href="https://amzn.to/2H38L9x" target="_blank">The Righteous Mind</a> by Jonathan Haidt.<br />
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Robert Hogan, Robert Kaiser, and Mark van Vogt argue that leadership can only be understood as the complement of followership. Focusing on leadership alone is like trying to understand clapping by studying only the left hand. They point out that leadership is not even the more interesting hand; it's no puzzle to understand why people want to lead. The real puzzle is why people are willing to follow.</blockquote>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-84620993947430376362019-02-05T17:51:00.000+09:002019-02-05T17:51:16.293+09:00Discipline Children ForwardTim Elmore, in a helpful article for parents and teachers about disciplining children in a positive way says this:<blockquote class="tr_bq">
<span style="background-color: white; caret-color: rgb(102, 102, 102); color: #666666; font-family: Arial; font-size: 16px;">The idea is—this kind of discipline looks ahead at what you are cultivating, not behind at the immature act that just happened. This parent or teacher is always in a futuristic building mode.</span></blockquote>
Any number of discipline styles can work in the moment, but the truly effective parent or teacher sees today's discipline as the foundation for a joyful, purposeful life.<br />
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Read the <a href="https://growingleaders.com/blog/positive-discipline-three-practical-strategies-parents-can-use/" target="_blank">article</a>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-45915298254164400002017-11-24T22:45:00.001+09:002017-11-24T22:48:48.460+09:00Jesus Drops the Mic<h2>
Kids in the Mainstream - Jesus’ Ministry 2</h2>
This is part 2 in a series of posts about kids belonging in the mainstream of church life. <a href="https://misterjeremy.blogspot.jp/2017/11/kids-in-mainstream-jesus-ministry.html" target="_blank">Part 1 is here</a>.<br />
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Then children were brought to him that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples rebuked the people, but Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” And he laid his hands on them and went away. (Matthew 19:13–15 ESV)</blockquote>
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This episode comes just one chapter after Jesus told his disciples that they had to change and become like children in order to enter the kingdom of heaven. That they had to humble themselves like children in order to be great. That when they welcomed children, they were welcoming Jesus.<br />
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But here the disciples rebuke and try to send away people who want to bring children to Jesus. Some folks are hard on the disciples here, but I don’t think they were bad guys. They probably observed that some “important” people were waiting to see Jesus. Or maybe a crowd was gathered to hear him preach. They wanted to prioritize and keep things moving.<br />
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Jesus famously scolds his disciples and welcomes the children, but that’s not all. The passage says that after he laid his hands on the children, HE WENT AWAY! Yes, I just shouted. Because, after blessing the children, <b>Jesus dropped the mic and left. </b><br />
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Whoever was waiting to talk to him, whatever crowd had gathered to be healed or hear him teach--they had to come back another day. That’s how emphatic Jesus was about the importance of children.<br />
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This passage challenges me to be fully present with my own children and to prioritize ministry to children in my church. How about you?<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-88750540258969650562017-11-21T18:00:00.000+09:002017-11-22T22:22:49.592+09:00Kids in the Mainstream - Jesus' MinistryThis is the first in a series of posts about kids belonging in the mainstream of church life.<br />
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When you picture Jesus and his disciples, do you picture children with them? I mean, except for that one time when he had to rebuke the disciples. If we look closely, several episodes in the Gospels indicate that Jesus often had kids around during his ministry years.<br />
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We get the following exchange in Matthew 18: 1-5<br />
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At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, . . ." (ESV)</blockquote>
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Jesus called a child and put him in the middle. Notice that Jesus didn't have to send someone out to find a child somewhere. The child (maybe several children) were already with Jesus and his disciples. We’ll see in future posts that Jesus seems to have had children around all the time.<br />
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Jesus told his disciples:<br />
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<li><span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>to humble themselves like children, and </li>
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These three things would be very difficult for the disciples to do if they weren’t around children regularly!<br />
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Imagine two people, both trying to become like children and humble themselves like children. One has a list of childlike qualities to emulate. The other actually spends time with children. The one with the list will struggle with the abstract task. But the one who is around children catches their qualities like catching a cold. This one enters the kingdom of heaven like a child and becomes great in the kingdom while becoming humble.<br />
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Jesus was wise to spend time with children, and we would be too!<br />
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How do you and your church community treat children? Are they in the mainstream of church life?<br />
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People tell me I’m doing well, but I still deal with feelings of inadequacy from time to time, especially when I’ve worked my tail off on a sermon and it still doesn’t feel quite right. It’s not to the point of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">impostor syndrome</a>, but still.<br />
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That’s why I was so encouraged the other day when I read Paul’s words to the Corinthians:<br />
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Such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God. Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency is from God, who has made us sufficient to ministers of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit. (<a href="https://www.esv.org/2+Corinthians+3/" target="_blank">2 Cor. 3:4-6 ESV</a>)</blockquote>
If you’re like me and feel insufficient to the task sometimes--in your parenting, ministry, work, or school--let’s remember this: <span style="font-size: large;">Our sufficiency is from God, not ourselves.</span><br />
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How about you? Do you ever feel like you don't have what it takes? How do you deal with it?<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-21332997983497041232017-03-02T18:00:00.000+09:002017-03-02T18:00:06.144+09:00Leaving Things UnsaidSometimes I feel like I need to include EVERYTHING in a lesson or a sermon or a talk with my kids. But Jesus said,<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">“I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now” (John 16:12).</span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-size: large;">With many such parables he spoke the word to them, as they were able to hear it. (Mark 4:33)</span></blockquote>
Choice words, fitly spoken, beat the kitchen sink every time.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-83085095759118773832017-03-01T18:00:00.000+09:002017-03-01T18:00:33.517+09:00On Asking for Feedback<blockquote class="tr_bq">
<span style="font-size: large;">"When administrators [other leaders] take the time to ask for feedback and input, teachers [and other front-line workers] feel as though their contributions make a difference. However, the best administrators never ask for information they plan to ignore, and never ask for input on a decision they have already made." -<a href="http://amzn.to/2l8ShD9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">If You Don’t Feed the Teachers, They Eat the Students</a> p.23</span></blockquote>
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This book contained a few gems like this, but was mostly long lists of ideas for supporting faculty and staff. The plethora of silly acronyms turned me off a bit.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-84851292857891205302017-02-23T18:00:00.000+09:002017-02-23T18:00:42.312+09:00How to Question Legitimate Authority<span style="font-family: inherit;">We are taught to respect authority, and rightfully so. God has placed parents, bosses, governments, and religious leaders over us as legitimate authority figures that we are to respect unless they forfeit that respect. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But questioning authority (respectfully) is not the same as defying authority, and legitimate authority should welcome questions. Here's a situation where authority should have been questioned in a book I recently read called <a href="http://amzn.to/2ltvZuX" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion</a>. (amazon affiliate link)</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: inherit;">A physician ordered ear drops to be administered to the right ear of a patient suffering pain and infection there. But instead of writing out completely the location “right ear” on the prescription, the doctor abbreviated it so that the instructions read “place in R ear.” Upon receiving the prescription, the duty nurse promptly put the required number of ear drops into the patient’s anus. Obviously, rectal treatment of an earache made no sense. Yet neither the patient nor the nurse questioned it. </span></blockquote>
<span style="font-family: inherit;">In Japan, where I live, and in other parts of Asia, it is particularly hard to question authority, but there are a few ways to make it more pleasant for both the one under authority and the one in authority. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">We recently talked about this issue at my church's men's group. Here are some helpful guidelines for people under authority who face a situation where questioning authority might be in order.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Try to find the answers yourself first.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Assume the best.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Assume that you might be missing something. Ask tentatively.</span></span></div>
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<span style="vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">People from different perspectives have much to offer.</span></div>
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<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert-Cialdini/dp/006124189X/ref=as_li_ss_il?ie=UTF8&qid=1487731491&sr=8-1&keywords=influence+the+psychology+of+persuasion&linkCode=li3&tag=mrjerem-20&linkId=15d84c2166167018ff0caa31b975239a" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="//ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com/widgets/q?_encoding=UTF8&ASIN=006124189X&Format=_SL250_&ID=AsinImage&MarketPlace=US&ServiceVersion=20070822&WS=1&tag=mrjerem-20" /></a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="https://ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=mrjerem-20&l=li3&o=1&a=006124189X" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" /></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-14820561202303416852017-02-22T18:00:00.000+09:002017-02-22T18:00:07.808+09:00Why I Unfollow500-Year-Old Wisdom for the Facebook generation.<blockquote class="tr_bq">
<span style="font-size: large;">There are many things too which it is your duty to pass by with a deaf ear, and be rather mindful of those which belong to peace. It is more profitable to turn away one's eyes from things that displease, and to leave each person his own opinion, than to wait upon contentious discourses. - Thomas a Kempis. <a href="http://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/1653" target="_blank">The Imitation of Christ</a> (free ebook from Project Gutenberg).</span></blockquote>
<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-36588044422010033662017-02-12T18:00:00.000+09:002017-02-12T18:00:09.525+09:00Groundbreaking New Medicine Treats ADHDFrom the "Duh" department, recent studies show that kids who get physical exercise have better executive function, which translates to improved math and reading scores, and this holds especially for kids who show signs of ADHD.<br />
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An article in The Atlantic entitled <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/09/exercise-seems-to-be-beneficial-to-children/380844/" target="_blank">"Exercise Is ADHD Medicine"</a> quotes Alan Smith, chair of the department of kinesiology at Michigan State, who "went out on no limb at all in a press statement at the time, saying, 'Early studies suggest that physical activity can have a positive effect on children who suffer from ADHD.'"<br />
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Maybe some kids could be treated with some fresh air and sunshine instead of stimulants.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-36000222772989179732017-02-11T18:22:00.000+09:002017-02-11T18:22:11.580+09:00You Need a Good Box<span style="font-size: large;">"It never occurred to them that, if everyone had to think outside the box, maybe it was the box that needed fixing." </span><br />
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- A Former Enron manager, as quoted on p. 374 of Malcolm Gladwell's <a href="http://amzn.to/2kDg4cF" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">What the Dog Saw</a>.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-30849600526429977962017-02-10T18:00:00.000+09:002017-03-11T17:58:35.725+09:00Whose Approval Matters?<style type="text/css">
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“In between other people’s opinions of us and our pleasure in them is our assessment of the validity of their approval. We are not the passive victims of others’ opinions. Their opinions are powerless unless we validate them. No one’s approval will affect us unless we grant it credibility and status. The same holds true for disapproval.” - John Ortberg, p. 63. <a href="http://amzn.to/2lqS5e9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Life You’ve Always Wanted</a> (amazon affiliate link)<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-68864507816211771222017-02-09T19:00:00.000+09:002017-02-09T19:00:07.991+09:00When Two or More Are Responsible for Something<blockquote class="tr_bq">
"When two or more are responsible for something, usually nobody is. . . . Everybody sort of feels responsible for it, but no one really owns it. So it doesn’t happen." - David Allen</blockquote>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-17427260430905997192016-03-23T23:11:00.001+09:002016-03-23T23:11:44.521+09:00Warm Up with Quick, Easy TasksAnother good one from HBR, this time about "<a href="https://hbr.org/2016/03/your-desire-to-get-things-done-can-undermine-your-effectiveness">completion bias</a>." Completing tasks, however small, gives us pleasure, so we tend to do simple and sometimes meaningless tasks rather than complicated and perhaps far more meaningful tasks.<br />
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So is the answer to avoid those simple tasks? Actually, no, because "finishing immediate, mundane tasks actually improves your ability to tackle tougher, important things." So the article suggests planning out your most important work for the day, but then cranking out a few (not too many!) small tasks to get into the groove before tackling your more demanding work.<br />
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To that suggestion, I'd add that <i>it's even better if your quick tasks at the beginning of the day are high leverage</i>. Here's a small example. Two days ago, I received an email asking me to approve the design for a sign that we had ordered. Before tackling the important work of the day (it happened to be a long bike ride with my son, but that's beside the point), I sent a quick reply approving the design. Our designer was able to get the sign printed, built and installed today, three days ahead of schedule!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-87567457144890132512016-03-19T11:42:00.000+09:002016-03-19T11:42:35.664+09:00The DeadlineHBR has a helpful <a href="https://hbr.org/2016/03/if-you-dread-deadlines-youre-thinking-about-them-all-wrong">article</a> about deadlines. Here's an excerpt:<br />
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It's true that deadlines bring focus and help us prioritize, but as we juggle time-sensitive projects at work, we can lose sight of the ultimate deadline<i>. </i>We don't know the exact date, but we know it's coming.<br />
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If having something due on Friday helps us decline extra projects and meetings, how much more so should the fact that our days are numbered help us to prune counterproductive pursuits from our lives.<br />
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"Teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom." Psalm 90:12Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-62395567202599074852016-03-16T21:03:00.004+09:002016-03-16T21:03:55.889+09:00Jesus and PoliticsWith eight months still to go until the US election, it's a good time to take a deep breath and think about where Jesus stands in all of this. Scott Sauls has written a helpful article to help Christians get some perspective. It reads, in part:<br />
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Matthew’s emphasis on a tax collector and a zealot living in community together suggests a hierarchy of loyalties, especially for Christians. Our loyalty to Jesus and his kingdom must always exceed our loyalty to an earthly agenda, whether political or otherwise.</div>
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We should feel “at home” with people who share our faith but not our politics even more than we do with people who share our politics but not our faith. If this isn’t our experience, then we may be rendering to Caesar what belongs to God.</div>
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Read the whole article <a href="http://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/the-non-partisan-politics-of-jesus">here</a>. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-2476669171446924842016-03-13T23:05:00.000+09:002016-03-13T23:05:51.815+09:00ADHD and the Relative Age Effect<div class="tr_bq">
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia, times new roman, times, serif;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 23px;">Younger children are diagnosed with ADHD at much higher rates than older children in the same grade. (32% higher for children born in the month before the school entry cutoff than for children born the month after according to the US study linked to below.)</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;">Researchers in Taiwan looked at data from 378,881 children ages 4 to 17 and found that students born in August, the cut-off month for school entry in that country, were more likely to be given diagnoses of A.D.H.D. than students born in September. The children born in September would have missed the previous year’s cut-off date for school entry, and thus had nearly a full extra year to mature before entering school. </span><a href="http://www.jpeds.com/article/S0022-3476%2816%2900160-8/abstract" style="background-color: white; color: #326891; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;">The findings</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;"> were published Thursday in The Journal of Pediatrics.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;">...</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;"><br /></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;">Other research has shown similar results. An earlier </span><a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20638739" style="background-color: white; color: #326891; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;">study</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 23px;"> in the United States, for example, found that roughly 8.4 percent of children born in the month before their state’s cutoff date for kindergarten eligibility are given A.D.H.D. diagnoses, compared to 5.1 percent of children born in the month immediately afterward.</span> </blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; line-height: 23px;">Here are some ideas for mitigating the relative age effect in the classroom without prescribing too much Ritalin. How about assessing children's readiness for school and being flexible with cutoff dates? Or take a cue from youth sports leagues that are organized into age cohorts narrower than one year. If the goal is to treat every child the same and expect the same from every child in the class make the age cutoffs every six months instead of every year.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; line-height: 23px;">Our </span><a href="http://www.newhopeclc.jp/" style="font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; line-height: 23px;">preschool</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; line-height: 23px;">, takes the opposite approach and embraces various maturity levels. We have 3-, 4-, and 5-year-olds together in a multiage classroom where differences in maturity are expected and desirable.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-8652823587729422972016-03-11T10:09:00.000+09:002016-03-11T10:09:35.361+09:00Metaphor for the ChurchShould the church operate most like a business unit, a military unit, or a family unit?<br />
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Taking cues from the business world is popular these days, but look at the qualifications for elders in 1 Timothy 3. <br />
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Let's be fathers, mothers, sisters, and brothers to one another!<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">HT <a href="http://www.challies.com/articles/the-character-of-the-christian-family-leaders" target="_blank">Tim Challies</a></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-10228569306400193992013-08-16T12:06:00.001+09:002013-08-16T12:06:26.606+09:00Help Your Child Read with DiscernmentI'm reading through the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0545162076/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0545162076&linkCode=as2&tag=mrjerem-20">Harry Potter series</a> (amazon affiliate link) with my son. The books are good, but have some iffy content. I thought about writing here about how to help kids read with discernment, but just today I came across <a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/08/15/help-your-child-read-with-discernment/" target="_blank">this excellent post</a> by Christina Fox at the gospel coalition.<br />
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She recommends that parents consider<br />
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And finally she recommends the practice of reading together with your child.<br />
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<a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/08/15/help-your-child-read-with-discernment/" target="_blank">Read the full article</a>. Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-34960505394468067812013-07-05T21:59:00.000+09:002013-07-05T21:59:43.366+09:00The New NIV Bible Bugs MeThis year, I am reading through the New Testament in a few different translations. Now I am in the NIV, and because I'm traveling, I didn't bring my paper 1984 NIV with me. I'm reading the new (2010) NIV online at Bible Gateway.<br />
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I had heard that there were certain liberties taken to make the new NIV gender neutral and that some scholars and pastors didn't like what some of those changes implied theologically. I haven't been bothered by the theology so far, but to me the changes destroy readability. Here's one example from this morning's reading (Matthew 15).<br />
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<span class="text Matt-15-16" id="en-NIV-23650"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">16 </sup>“Are you still so dull?”</span> Jesus asked them.</span> <span class="text Matt-15-17" id="en-NIV-23651"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">17 </sup>“Don’t you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body?</span></span> <span class="text Matt-15-18" id="en-NIV-23652"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">18 </sup>But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile <b>them</b>.</span></span> <span class="text Matt-15-19" id="en-NIV-23653"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">19 </sup>For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.</span></span> <span class="text Matt-15-20" id="en-NIV-23654"><span class="woj"><sup class="versenum">20 </sup>These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile <b>them</b>.”</span></span></blockquote>
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">What are the antecedents to the two "thems?"</span> </span>Plural pronouns, plural antecedents, right? But then verses 18 and 20 would read like this:<br />
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18 "<span class="woj">But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile <b>the things that come out of a person's mouth.</b>" </span><br />
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<span class="woj">20 "</span><span class="text Matt-15-20" id="en-NIV-23654"><span class="woj">These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile <b>the unwashed hands</b>.”</span></span></blockquote>
Arrrrrgh!<br />
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Thankfully there's the ESV, which I'll stick with at least until the NIV comes up with a more elegant way to be gender neutral.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-39306370514435611392013-06-22T07:40:00.003+09:002013-06-22T07:40:59.553+09:00Home School, Private School, Public SchoolAs we shift back toward homeschooling, I found the following series of articles very interesting. Three moms share why they send their kids to public schools, send their kids to private schools, and keep their kids at home for school, respectively.<br />
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<a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/06/19/perspectives-on-our-childrens-education-going-public/" target="_blank">Perspectives on Our Children's Education: Going Public</a><br />
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<a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/06/20/perspectives-on-our-childrens-education-a-private-enterprise/?comments#comments" target="_blank">Perspectives on Our Children's Education: A Private Enterprise</a><br />
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<a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/tgc/2013/06/21/perspectives-on-our-childrens-education-homeward-bound/?comments#comments#comment-81364" target="_blank">Perspectives on Our Children's Education: Homeward Bound</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-9489097783782016432013-06-13T21:53:00.002+09:002013-06-13T21:53:48.644+09:00"Grit" Trumps IQ in Predicting Student SuccessI see this in school and life all the time. It is those with grit who succeed. Check out Angela Lee Duckworth's paper, "Self-Discipline Outdoes IQ in Predicting Academic Performance of Adolescents" <a href="http://www.sas.upenn.edu/~duckwort/images/publications/DuckworthSeligman_2005_Self-DisciplinePredictsAcademicAchievement.pdf" target="_blank">pdf</a> or if you prefer video to dry, academic papers, watch her TED talk.<br />
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<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="210" mozallowfullscreen="" scrolling="no" src="http://embed.ted.com/talks/angela_lee_duckworth_the_key_to_success_grit.html" webkitallowfullscreen="" width="344"></iframe>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1564997237970749048.post-47202614535086307382013-06-11T21:26:00.000+09:002013-06-11T21:26:16.281+09:00Gaining Ground: Adventure FarmingIt has been a while since I read a 300+ page book in less than 24 hours, but that's what I did this weekend. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0762787252/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0762787252&linkCode=as2&tag=mrjerem-20">Gaining Ground: A Story of Farmers' Markets, Local Food, and Saving the Family Farm</a> hooked me in and I can't really figure out why. I live in a big city, am not that into organic or slow food, and the closest thing I do to farming is remind the kids to water the houseplants once a week or so.<br />
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But Forrest Pritchard's book about taking over the family farm and getting back to the rhythms of soil, water, grass and food struck a chord. It was an adventure book and a meditation. It made me want to raise fresh, delicious food, or at least buy from a local farmer. Know any in Tokyo?<br />
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